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🤝 Your Match-Up

Where you and your little line up, and where a gentle conversation will help. Each of you fills your own worksheets (use the side toggle up top); this compares them.

Fill in some worksheets first (on each side) to see your match-up.

🎀 Roles & Power

How strict should the dynamic feel?

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How much power exchange do you want?

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How often do you expect little headspace?

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Preferred titles (for each of you)

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Any subtle dynamic elements in public?

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📋 Rules & Structure

Who sets the rules?

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Do you want a set bedtime?

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Which core rules feel good?

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How firm should consequences be?

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Which rewards motivate the little?

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☀️ Daily Care & Routine

Where do diapers fit in?

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Which routine pieces do you want?

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Feeding & mealtime elements

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How often should the caregiver check in?

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🛟 Limits, Safewords & Aftercare

What safe-signal system will you use?

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Hard limits (never, full stop)

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Soft limits (maybe, with care)

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What aftercare do you need?

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How does drop show up for you?

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